Everything Happens For A Reason

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there…to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential, strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.

Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create whom you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate everything that you possibly can, for you may never experience it again.

Talk to people whom you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to.

Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create you own life and then go out and live it.

How To Become Stronger Emotionally

Being emotionally strong can be very difficult if you don't feel very confident about yourself and if your emotional side tends to take control of you in each and every situation. 

Building up your emotional strength so that you can both control it and harness the strength it can give you, rather than being held sway by emotional outbursts. 

This article is about helping you to find the strength deep inside you, because you already have it all, you just need to find it.

THE STEPS:-

• Make a decision today. Decide that you want to be strong, to let nothing negatively affect you. Affirm this decision daily for the remainder of your life!

• Resolve to change and do it. To succeed you must be willing to change. Be ready to do that

• Believe in yourself. Once you believe you are strong emotionally, you will unconsciously act stronger than before and begin to take control over your emotional whims. It's the same about everything you want to achieve, it's only about confidence

• Look confident. Only you can build your self-confidence. Believe deeply in yourself because that's the first step. But even when you don't feel so confident, at least do your best to portray confidence. This is a booster in itself and it is important that you keep it up.

• Don't show fear of anything. Act fearless. Confront fears by doing one thing every day that scares you. Start with little things at first and build up to the sky dive, the reunion with the estranged parent, the inevitable break up with a friend who just isn't right for you...

• Don't be afraid of tomorrow because it's made to be a mystery, a challenge for you. Ask yourself: How can you win the challenge if you are afraid of starting it? It's a challenge and you should win it. Remember, you've made that decision and remember that today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday. Get on with it.

• Don't be afraid of anyone. Keep in mind that everyone, no matter how strong they look, is afraid of how others will receive them and interact with them. They may not show it because they've learned to hide it and have adopted good coping mechanisms which you can learn. Moreover, learn to love being with people, to learn from them, to ask them questions. If your fear starts to overwhelm you, always resort to asking other people questions and let them do the talking. They'll think you're a great person for it.

• Be positive, optimistic, think positively. Find something good in everything you have, you do, you hear. And find three good things about every person you meet. Meaning, do not hate people. Hatred is weakness. You don't have to love, just don't hate and always seek the goodness in others.

• When you speak, make eye contact, speaking calmly, with confidence, about something you know well, and briefly. People get bored easily.

• Don't let anyone underestimate you, don't get mean if it happens, just defend yourself in a mature way.

• Learn from mistakes. Actually they're not mistakes , they're just lessons that you could learn from.

• Watch other strong people, see how they act in a certain way and learn from them. Don't copy their personality, just take a little bit from everyone.

THE TIPS:-

• Stand up straight, with your head up high, to project confidence.
• Avoid playing with your clothes or your accessories while standing with a group. You'll look uncomfortable.
• Smile at people often.
• Be kind and respectful to everyone you meet.

WARNING:-

• Avoid appearing arrogant.
• You can generally trust people that you know well.
• Don't show off to the extent that people hate you for it.
• Act like an equal, don't appear better than one another

Source:wikihow.com

ALI ABI THALIB ~ Pintu Kota Ilmu

Mungkin kita pernah mendengar Julukan yang diberikan Rasulullah kepada Sayyidina Ali sebagai Pintu Ilmu (babul ’ilmi). Dan Rasulullah berkata ”Aku adalah Kota Ilmu, sedangkan Ali bin Abi Thalib adalah pintunya. Maka sekiranya kamu ingin memasuki Kota Ilmu, maka kamu masuklah melalui pintu itu".

Pernyataan Rasulullah ini menimbulkan perasaan iri kaum Khawarij terhadap Sayyidina Ali, Dikisahkan mereka menguji Sayyidina Ali.

Sayyidina Ali akan diajukan pertanyaan yang sama oleh 10 orang dari mereka. Tapi Ali harus menjawab dengan 10 jawaban yang berbeda.

Mereka bertanya : ”Wahai Ali, Istimewa manakah antara Ilmu dan Harta?

Dan Ali menjawab kepada :

Orang pertama : Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab Ilmu adalah warisan para nabi, Sedangkan harta adalah warisan Qorun, Haman dan Fir’aun.

Orang kedua : Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab Ilmu selalu menjagamu, Sedangkan engkau harus menjaga harta milikmu.

Orang ketiga : Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab orang berilmu banyak teman, Sedangkan orang berharta banyak musuhnya.

Orang keempat : Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab ilmu bila di infaqkan semakin bertambah, Sedangkan harta bila diinfaqkan semakin berkurang.

Orang kelima : Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab orang berilmu dipanggil dengan sebutan mulia, Sedangkan orang berharta dipanggil dengan sebutan hina.

Orang keenam : Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab Ilmu tidak perlu dijaga, Sedangkan harta minta dijaga.

Orang ketujuh : Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab orang berilmu dihari akhirat dapat memberi syafaat, Sedangkan orang berharta dihari kiamat dihisab dengan berat.

Orang kelapan: Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab Ilmu bila dibiarkan saja tidak akan pernah rusak, Sedangkan harta bila dibiarkan pasti berkurang (bahkan habis dimakan)

Orang kesembilan: Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab Ilmu memberikan penerang didalam hati, Sedangkan harta dapat membuat kerusakan didalam hati (seperti timbulnya sifat takabur, pamer,ingkar).

Orang kesepuluh: Ilmu lebih istimewa daripada Harta, Sebab orang berilmu bersikap lemah lembut dan selalu berbakti kepada Allah, Sedangkan orang berharta, seringkali takabur dan ingkar kepada Allah.

Atas jawaban tersebut Kaum Khawarij mengakui kealiman Sayyidina Ali dan mengakui kebenaran Sabda rasulullah.

Dan merekapun tunduk patuh pada Sayyidina Ali.

Subhanallah…

Source:rayyaa.wordpress.com

Never Give Up

Try to relax, it will get better. If you are in stressful period of your life and you have done everything you could to strengthen the matter out, then the hardest thing for you could be having patience and believing that right things will happen sooner or later.

Take some time off. Sometimes you need to take a time off from trying to do too much, get yourself into doing some other things. This may clear your head and give you more ideas later when you are ready.

Make realistic goals. Make sure that your goal is moral and worthwhile, for example, you are not trying to get back with your former girlfriend who is now married to someone else. In other words, make realistic goals that involve you and depend only on you.

Be truthful. Accept the fact that the goal might be hard to reach. There will be difficulties, setbacks, ups and downs, it may or may not take years or of life, depending on how fast you are willing to improve the necessary knowledge and skills.

Make small steps. Think of a realistic plan on how you will incorporate the time for obtaining new skill into your life. Dedicating your entire free time toward achieving your goal may create stress in your family life, and further take you away from your goal as a result, so make smaller steps and proceed with smooth transition, letting other people around you know what you have in mind.

Manage stress. Do not work on your goal while stressing out. If you find yourself stressing out, find relaxing techniques and activities that nourish you. Take time for yourself and develop patience. Patience has lots to do with being able to work on and reach your goal.

Find support or be your own cheerleader. Realize that success does not come easy; for the most part it is a result of a lot of hard work. Finding support groups is helpful while working on goals. Share your ideas with supportive friends who encourage you and believe in you and be careful to be around people who tell you that you can’t do something. If you do not have people who encourage you, you can use technique called “tapping” or EMDR that can help you to tap into inner strength and support to enable you to continue with your process

Tips to be Happy

Are you truly happy?

Do you even know what it means to be happy and what it takes to achieve happiness? 

The truth of the matter is that happiness, like anything else in life, needs to be nurtured. 

The following are a few tips that I follow to create happiness in your life:-

• Understand what it is that will make you happy. Everyone has unique requirements for attaining happiness and what makes one person happy may be very different from what makes someone else happy. Revel in your individuality and do not worry about whether or not your desires are comparable to those of your peers.

• Make a plan for attaining goals that you believe will make you happy. Your mood will very likely increase as your pursue your goal because you will feel better about yourself for going after something you value.

• Surround yourself with happy people. It is easy to begin to think negatively when you are surrounded by people who think that way. Conversely, if you are around people who are happy their emotional state will be infectious.

• When something goes wrong try to figure out a solution instead of wallowing in self pity. Truly happy people don’t allow set backs to affect their mood because they know that with a little thought they can turn the circumstances back to their favor.

• Spend a few minutes each day thinking about the things that make you happy. These few minutes will give you the opportunity to focus on the positive things in your life and will lead you to continued happiness.

• It’s also important to take some time each day to do something nice for yourself. Whether you treat yourself to lunch, take a long, relaxing bath or simply spend a few extra minutes on your appearance you will be subconsciously putting yourself in a better mood.

• Finding the humor in situations can also lead to happiness. While there are times that require you to be serious, when it is appropriate, find a way to make light of a situation that would otherwise make you unhappy.

• Maintaining your health is another way to achieve happiness. Being overweight or not eating nutritious foods can have a negative effect on your mood. Additionally, exercise has been known to release endorphins that give you a feeling of happiness.

• Finally, it is important to understand that you deserve happiness. Those who believe that they are not worthy of happiness may subconsciously sabotage their efforts to achieve happiness. If necessary, tell yourself each day that you deserve to be happy and remind yourself what steps you will take to achieve the happiness you desire.

Happiness is hard to define but most people are aware of whether they are happy or not. 

Many people believe that happiness is a form of luck and that some people are destined to be happy while others are destined to be unhappy

Source: lifehack.org

Father

Dad,

A great many thanks for all you have done

Without you my life would not have begun

You have been there when I most needed you

You have helped to guide me my whole life through

We have shared both the good times and the bad

But most of all, thank you for being my dad

I love you dad

Kenali Lelaki Di Sisi Anda

Jika suami anda menyendiri dan menjauhkan diri, ketahuilah dia dalam keadaan tertekan. Boleh jadi ada tekanan di tempat kerjanya. Boleh jadi oleh kereta yang dimilikinya atau boleh jadi beberapa karenah anda yang menjadi penyebabnya.

Apabila lelaki menyendiri, kita boleh simpulkan dia sedang tertekan. Berbeza dengan anda, dalam keadaan tertekanlah segala rahsia akan diceritakan. Anda melakukan begitu untuk meraih simpati.

Meskipun begitu, usahlah risau. Ia sekejap saja. Emosi pada orang lelaki umpama getah. Sekejap saja telah kembali ke bentuk asal walaupun tadinya terhenyak pipih.

Berbeza dengan anda bukan? Tatkala anda tertekan, emosi anda umpama ombak. Ombak memang tidak pernah reda. Kalau reda pun, mengambil masa yang lama.

Apabila lelaki suka menyendiri dan berdiam diri, biasanya disebabkan imejnya yang tergugat. Biarkan sahaja untuk tempoh-tempoh tertentu.

Usah 'gatal-gatal' sangat memujuk. Kadang-kadang lelaki hanya perlukan 'tempoh bertenang' sebelum mengambil langkah seterusnya.

Anda kelam-kabut. Maka itu anda mudah marah, cemburu dan merajuk apabila berdepan dalam situasi begini. Ohhh itu silap.

Lelaki selalunya dapat menyesuaikan diri apabila menghadapi kesukaran. Berbeza wanita, biasanya cukup risau dalam keadaan demikian.

Dan usah risau sangat kalau lelaki anda cuba berjauhan dari anda dalam keadaan-keadaan demikian. Sebab semulajadinya lelaki terasa selesa berjauhan dengan keluarga. Ini tentu berbeza sekali dengan anda yang suka dan berasa tenang bersama keluarga.

Mengapa lelaki begitu? Itulah bukti kekuasaan ALLAH SWT. DIA menjadikan perbezaan yang ketara antara lelaki dengan wanita. Agar apabila disatukan, terjalinlah satu bentuk kekuatan lantaran saling sempurna menyempurnakan dan lengkap melengkapi.

Semua kekurangan isteri akan dipenuhi oleh suami dan semua kekurangan suami akan dipenuhi pula oleh isteri. Lihat perbezaan sebagai sebab untuk sempurna menyempurnakan bukan jurang kedegilan untuk tidak mahu memahami.

Lelaki itu cara fikirnya makro, iaitu dia melihat secara keseluruhan. Sedangkan anda para wanita mempunyai penilaian bersifat mikro iaitu melihat sesuatu secara terperinci.

Maka itu, usah hairan. Terkadang suami selamba dengan masalah yang anda rasakan cukup berat. Anda telah kering air mata sedangkan dia masih belum menitis walau sebutirpun airmata.

Jika berlaku pertengkaran selalunya dia akan melawan habis-habisan dan anda pula mengalah dan pura-pura setuju demi perhubungan.

Usah terasa teruk sangat dengan keadaan ini. Lelaki memang begitu, sentiasa mahu menang dan mahu sentiasa dilihat menang walaupun hatinya mengakui kesilapannya dan mahu berubah mengikut apa yang anda perkatakan.

Walaupun anda tahu anda benar dan anda tidak pernah berbuat salah, akhirilah semua pertengkaran dan perselisihan dengan anda yang meminta maaf.

Anda mahukan dia yang meminta maaf? Usah harap. Lelaki memang berat untuk meminta maaf terutama daripada pasangannya. Ikut kajian, wanita lebih mudah meminta maaf dalam keadaan apa jua dan atas hal apa jua. Maka, gunakan kelebihan ini untuk lebih mudah meminta maaf walaupun tidak bersalah.

Satu lagi yang anda patut tahu tentang lelaki ialah mereka memang suka memberi arahan bagaikan ketua yang mempunyai kuasa.

Usah dilawan, tapi layanlah hati sendiri dengan berleter hingga anda sendiri berasa puas. Tapi awas, jangan sampai berleter di hadapannya. Itu boleh memburukkan keadaan.

Kata orang, wanita sinonim dengan leteran. Kalau tak pandai berleter, bukan wanita namanya. Ya, teruskan saja berleter. Hamburkan semua yang menekan kepala.

Cuma, mohon berleter di dalam bilik yang tertutup. Sebab kucing pun pening dengan leteran anda. Lelaki memang rimas dengan leteran dan cepat naik darah apabila asyik dileteri.

Lihatlah betapa berbezanya anda dengan suami. Tidakkah anda setuju jika saya katakan, adalah amat beruntung jika anda tahu lebih banyak tentang lelaki?

Kecantikan Lelaki

Kecantikan seorang lelaki bukan kepada rupa fizikal tetapi pada murni rohani.

Lelaki yang cantik adalah:-

1) Lelaki yang mampu mengalirkan airmata untuk ingatan
2) Lelaki yang sedia menerima segala teguran
3) Lelaki yang memberi madu, setelah menerima racun
4) Lelaki yang tenang dan lapang dada
5) Lelaki yang baik sangka
6) Lelaki yang tak pernah putus asa

Kecantikan lelaki berdiri di atas kemuliaan hati. Seluruh kecantikan yang ada pada Nabi Muhammad adalah kecantikan yang sempurna seorang lelaki.

Kegagahan Wanita

Kegagahan seorang wanita bukan kepada pejal otot badan, tetapi pada kekuatan perasaan.

Perempuan yang gagah adalah:-

1) Perempuan yang tahan menerima sebuah kehilangan
2) Perempuan yang tidak takut pada kemiskinan
3) Perempuan yang tabah menanggung kerinduan setelah ditinggalkan
4) Perempuan yang tidak meminta-minta agar dipenuhi segala keinginan.

Kegagahan perempuan berdiri di atas teguh iman. Seluruh kegagahan yang ada pada Khadijah adalah kegagahan sempurna bagi seorang perempuan.

L.I.F.E

"When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the coffee."

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front on him.

When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed it was...

So then the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar..

He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar and of course the sand filled up everything else up. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes".

The professor then produced two coffee cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively "Now", said the professor, as the laughter subsided. "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.

The golf balls are the important things - your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions - things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car.
The sand is everything else - the small stuff.

"If you put the sand in the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children.

Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse to dinner. Spend time with your parents for you won't always have them in your life.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represents?

The professor smiled. "I am glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there is always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.

Which Baby is You

Which Baby is you.. This is for fun only. Do not take it seriously matter to you ok.. 

Unless the statement is really really really nice and talking good about you.. hehehe... 

Now take a look.. 

January	Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn. Surely there is more? :D
February	Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest And loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.
March	Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others.
April	Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confidant. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and travelling. Systematic. Hot but has brains.
May	Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves travelling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High-spirited.
June	Thank goodness they were kind to us Geminis. Geminis have the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner, a wicked hottie. It is also more than likely that you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day become a famous actor or actress yourself. Heck, you've got the looks for it!
July	Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be l oved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.

August

	Outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. No self-control. Kind hearted. Self-confident. Loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Has an "everything's peachy" attitude. Likes talking and singing. Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. in need of "that someone". Longs for freedom Rebellious when withheld or restricted. Lives by "no pain no gain" caring. Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. "charming" or "beautiful" to everyone. stubborn. curious. Independent. Strong willed. A fighter.
September	Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.
October	Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.
November	Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.
December	This straight-up means you are the most good-looking person possible.. Better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer. ÊFriendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves music. Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive.

Identify your personality by the baby/month you were born in

January Babies
Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn.

February Babies
Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest And loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions. 

March Babies

Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others.

April Babies

Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous.. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confidant. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and travelling. Systematic. Hot but has brains.

May Babies

Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves travelling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High-spirited.

June Babies

You've got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner. a wicked hottie. It is also more than likely that you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck, you've got the looks for it!


July Babies

Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be l oved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.

August Babies

Outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. No self-control. Kind hearted. Self-confident. Loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Has an 'everything's peachy' attitude Likes talking and singing. Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. in need of 'that someone'. Longs for freedom. Rebellious when withheld or restricted. Lives by 'no pain no gain' caring. Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. 'charming' or 'beautiful' to everyone. stubborn. curious. Independent. Strong willed. A fighter.

 September Babies

Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems. Brave and fearless.. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.

October Babies

Loves to chat. Loves those who love them.. Loves to takes things at the centre. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.

November Babies

Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes.. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.

December Babies

This straight-up means you are the most good-looking person possible... Better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer. Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves music. Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive.